This blog emphasizes thoughts that go bump in the
night – those aha! and eureka! moments of mental clarity. Such thoughts solve problems, begin new ways of
doing things, and herald a better situation for the thinker. Such moments indicate a shift in perspective –
a new and fresh approach to thinking about a circumstance, situation,
relationship and so on. The “charge”
resulting from an aha! moment is the literal sensation of a quantum leap
to a higher frequency.
Thinking is the most natural of human
processes. It is impossible to NOT
think. It is possible, however, to
become unaware of how one thinks.
And this is where the Eureka! moments come into play. Humans have the ability to habituate – to render
certain processes and actions into habits – which means that a person can do
something without awareness. That frees
up a lot of consciousness for the 3-D experience. Thinking can become a habit. A thought, repeated over time, embeds itself
into personal experience. That can be
desirable. It can also be otherwise.
When someone considers changing their mind, this is
what’s occurring. A held thought, or
pattern of thinking, is no longer serving and can be replaced with a different
thought, to create a new pattern. It’s
the process Charles Fillmore spoke when he taught “If you’re unhappy with your
life, change your thinking.” Any
unhappiness (dis-satisfaction, dis-ease, etc.) is due to a thinking
pattern. The thinking has to change
before anything else improves. Emmet Fox
noted the frustration many have when attempting to change circumstances without
changing their thinking – it can’t be done.
An example of what a “change” in thinking means is
to examine two teachings, both about the same thing:
Hurt not others in ways that you
yourself would find hurtful. Buddhism.
This is the sum of duty; do naught onto
others what you would not have them do unto you. Hinduism.
What is hateful to you, do not do to your
fellowman. Judaism.
These very ancient teachings guide relationships between
people. In effect, don’t inflict harm on
another; if it hurts you, it’ll hurt someone else. Consider the point of attention – that which
is hateful/hurtful/undesired. Choices
and decisions are made after noting a degree of
pain/suffering/undesirable. It’s a
system that worked very well.
Yet there is another way of thinking about the relationships
between people:
All things whatsoever ye
would that men should do to you, do ye so to them.
The New Testament update of the old teaching is
subtle, yet profound. This teaching
shifts the point of attention away from hateful/hurtful/undesirable and towards
desirable. It alters the initiative - the former being reactive to others, the latter being active regardless of others. It’s a paradigm
shift. As with any change, not everyone
is able to do it, as was evident with the turmoil created when Jesus amended
the old teaching. Yet if you are able to
discern the difference between the two approaches, then you’ll better
understand any Aha! moment.
Does a change in thinking result in a better
experience? The proof of the pudding is
in the eating, as is said. One cannot
know until it is done, otherwise the established/habituated thought or belief
continues to rule.
Readers of this blog have likely bumped into some
reference to Complaint-Free – a idea racing around to literally stop
complaining. Complaint free simply means
to become aware of how one interprets something. Complaining personalizes undesirable
observations – the waiter deliberately brought me cold soup! Such personalizing obstructs solving a “problem”
or finding an effective way of handling a situation. More on this here.
The point is that anyone who has made any attempt
at reducing complaining (a.k.a. gossip) will be forever more sensitive to complaints
and complaining, especially by others.
That’s the pudding delivering its proof.
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